Wicked in Bed
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Stuff PJ likes…
I do not tolerate racism or prejudice of any kind, but I do think that it can be fun to laugh at ourselves. I believe that the differences between races are more cultural than genetic, and I don’t see why we can’t examine our own culture and those of others for similarities and differences.
As a second generation immigrant living in the UK, I often feel like someone who doesn’t fit. I’m not Jamaican, but I’m also not like my white friends whose families may have lived here for generations. I am proud of who I am and my heritage, and also glad to be living in one of the most culturally diverse places in the world.
Growing up as an ethnic minority can have an effect on one’s self-concept, and I admit that there were times during my childhood when I would wish for the long mane and pale skin of a white girl. I also remember being called a “bounty” or a “coconut” (i.e. black on the outside, white on the inside) for being studious and not very “ghetto”.
Why is is thought of as “black” to fail in school, to take drugs and to commit crime? “Black-on-black crime” is a major issue in certain parts of London, and it seems that young black kids in certain areas only aspire to becoming drug dealers and only feel safe if they join a gang. It’s also true that the number of black people in prison and within the mental health system in the UK is disproportionate to the percentage of black people in the general population. Something is clearly wrong here.
Less seriously though, the other day I noticed this new (clearly satirical) blog called Stuff White People Like and read most of the entries. I definitely feel like some of those statements could apply to me. Here’s the current list, and my thoughts on them. I’ll bold the ones that apply to me. (more…)
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Yummy Mummies
Happy Mothers’ Day!
Pregnancy seems to be an infectious condition in Hollywood right now. Half the women on the Academy Awards’ red carpet seemed to be sporting those fashionable bumps. Here are some celebrities who are either currently up the duff or have recently given birth to their babes. Pregnancy definitely seems to suit these women… (more…)
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Look Deep!
According to some old traditions, women may propose to their men on 29 February. Some of you may be thinking of taking the initiative and going for that desire to solidify your relationship. If you are, I urge you to really think about it first.

Everybody know that most marriages will end in divorce, but that doesn’t stop the hopeful ones from trying to beat the odds, bless them!
Recent research suggests that the often-quoted findings about married men being happier than single men, and single women being happier than married women is not entirely sound, but of course your man isn’t like all the rest, is he?
Sure he might be gorgeous now, but will you still love him when you’re both eighty? The chances are that you’ll outlive him, which might be the only thing to look forward to if you end up with the wrong bloke.
Is the sex good? If it’s not good already, you’re not going to have fireworks on the wedding night.
Do you have similar views on raising children and dealing with your finances? These are the things that can chip away at a marriage until there’s nothing left but hatred and bitter resentment.

Judge Mablean Ephraim often says on her TV show Divorce Court: Look deep before you leap. She also says that it’s the little things that tend to break up a marriage, those insidious habits that annoy us each day. You may start to despise the way he demands sex when he comes home from the pub, or when he fails to remember your birthday.
Ask yourself: does he treat you like the goddess that you are?
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Did you feel it?

At about 1am this morning an earthquake measuring 5.2. on the Richter scale hit the UK, with its epicentre at 8km east of Market Rasen, Lincolnshire.
At that time I was laying on my bed and reading various blogs. I felt my bed shake very slightly, but thought I was imagining it. Then it happened again, and I looked around the room in alarm. It stopped, so I just went back to what I was doing.
I just saw the news reports about the quake. I’ve never experienced an earthquake before, and this is one of the last places that you’d expect to feel tremors, though the UK has had the odd tornado from time to time.
Freaky, eh?
Vid: Can You Feel It by The Jacksons
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Photographic
I haven’t been pursuing my photography consistently recently; my distance-learning course ends in the next few days and I feel like I’ve wasted that opportunity, but I should have known better than to enrol on it. I seem to prefer to learn things as and when I need them rather than following a prescribed course of study.
Still, I’ve made some progress, mainly due to having my pics hosted on flickr. Two of my photos were chosen for Schmap Guides to London and Paris, and someone whose photos I really admire invited me to join his group called THE EXTRAORDINARY PHOTOGRAPH.
Last week I ventured into central London again: Clapham, Battersea, Chelsea, Piccadilly, Charing Cross then Victoria. You’ll see that I also stopped at the Hard Rock Café too. While I was around Leicester Square and Charing Cross Rd I also took some pics for Splotchy’s new blog, which was fun. Here are some of the results.
On my travels I purchased this canvas pic of a sexy pair of lips, which is currently hanging above my desk.

And finally, a guy has offered to model for me, in response to item 62 on my 99 things…
Not like that, it’ll be all above board. So now I need to find a suitable studio to hire for a few hours next Sunday…
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Cloverfield
I saw Cloverfield the other day, and thought that it was B-Movie heaven.
Who doesn’t love to see gorgeous people being attacked by evil creepies?
Who doesn’t love to watch a guy who puts his life and those of his friends’ in jeopardy to save a hot girl?
Who doesn’t love having a queasy stomach while watching an incessantly shaky viewpoint?
Who doesn’t love spotting the gaping plot holes, inconsistencies and predictable moments?
Who doesn’t love having little context in which to place the events of the movie, and no explanation for the monsters’ origins?
McMurphyMe
Do you ever feel like you’re the only sane in the village?

Or that you’re surrounded by morons?

Welcome to my universe. Roll on 6pm.
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Suicidal Food
I’ve recently noticed quite a trend in food advertising, which I find quite disturbing; the apparent death-wish of a variety of foodstuffs. I guess I find it disturbing because it promotes the anthropomorphism of animals and plant-derived foods. And besides, if a pig was like us, why would it want to be eaten?
And there were the Bunny Suicides:
Then there was that Twix ad, about the two choc bars that were happier together, even if together meant that they were in someone’s stomach…
And now it’s the turn of the class Cadbury’s Cream Egg to declare its death-wish, this is my favourite one as it’s pretty clever, but there are some other ones below too, watch them if you think you’re ‘ard”